FoggyRock General Forum

Whatr heppened my friend?

Sorry I dd'nt understand to hit the link. I'm a little computer illiterate still. I think you were more than tolerant and loving to that boy and his mother, much more tolerant than anyone else would have been. You have a heart for even other kid's disabilities, but you're right to keep Jaymes away from him for his sake. I know it hurt your heart to hear Jaymes being talked to so. If I were there I would have wanted to haul Jaymes away myself. The pacifier thing in your last post made me laugh, it reminded me of a episode of Rugrats I once saw where they swapped Pacifiers with each other. And, the stepford moms will always be the "Stepford Moms" --the ones who keep the world perfect for their kids with perfect nap schedules. But, we have to remember than they have not walked in our shoes and we could be them and they could be us. None of us have walked in each other's shoes, had each other's backgrounds or each other's plights in life. One thing I've noticed in life is that God will teach the lessons people need to learn, although at times it seems he does'nt. Each person has their time in life for tragedy of some kind and they never know when that particular tragedy will come. I once had a friend who had a very charmed life and was very spoilt, and suddenly her husband got a brain tumor. Life does have it's twists and turns. We would love to get together with you sometime. Does James like to jump on trampolines or swim? We have both a kiddie pool and trampoline at my house. Thought you were leaving for your trip???

Oh, that child knows that he's being mean.. He is purposely cruel.. But I dunno, I guess his bi-polar or whatever is to blame. He can be sweet too.

Striving, yes, we're on vacation, I have internet access and my laptop. We'll be back Tuesday( :

I, too, can't stand the Stepford "moms"!!! They congregate at a McDonalds' in-door playground where I live.  A place that my daughter loves to go.  So, like you, I show up in my jean shrts and T-shirt and they look at me like I am a homeless person.  However, like some, I can be a bitch on the net AND in person!  LOL!  Hang in there and don't let them get ya down!!!

I'm sorry you and Jaymes had to have this experience this week.  It does really suck and I have never realized how intolerate mothers of all people can be until I had Hannah. 

I'm not much on advise this week.  Hannah and I tried VBS this week.  It went great until Wednesday.  She was in rec and having a great time playing a game.  When the game ended a little boy got in her face and said...."YOU'RE WIERD!  YOU'RE THE WIERDEST KID I'VE EVER SEEN!"  She didn't do anything odd, I thought.  She just laughed because she was enjoying the game.  Anyway, I dont' think she understood what he said but his demeanor threatened her and that was all she wrote.  We had to leave.  We didn't go yesterday.  I thought I'd give her a break and she would forget.  Well, last night was family night and I was trying to show my husband the rec room and Hannah freaked.  So, no, she didn't forget and we didn't go today either.  I did tell the little boy that he wasn't being nice and I did let people in charge know it happened.  Sigh!  Anyway, I'm new here and if I wasn't supposed to share that on your thread please just tell me.  I won't be offended.

Marcey, I am sorry that happened. I think I would have got right in his face and said "Well I think you are rude, the rudest kid I have ever seen!" I know that is probably not the grown up thing to do but I bet he would think twice next time, lol.