Oh my, my son showed me today, that he can go into the men's restroom and change come out with all his belongings give them to me and guide me to the car.
after swimming I always help Julian get dried off...he doesn't like wet clothes...I help him change too. Well today he grabbed his dry clothes and took off walking away from me...I said" wait for me"...he turned around looked right at me and shook his head no...I just stood there, where I was, I didn't know what to do next...finally I said o.k. but wait, went over to him told him to go and change and be sure to bring back his wet clothes...I was standing away from the restroom and all of a sudden he hands me all his wet clothes bundled up in his towel...I made the comment out loud...you did it, you really did it and all by yourself...on of the coaches comes over and says "He is growing and changing so much mom, I he did it all by himself, way to go Julian". He gives her a high five and I wanted to cry...First whiskers and now walking away from me to take care of himself, boy what is next...I know in my heart I want a full recovery...but my extrodinary child needs me less and less...I am happy and sad at the same time. anyone have any ideas on what I can do for me.