Caliboo818 - A Little by Little Production
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State: CA
Country: USA
Member since: Mar 09, 2008
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Greeting to you all. I know you are saying about time she tells us something about her self lmbo. Well I am a MSAHM of four wonderful kids.

Three girls Lonette 21 soon to graduate next month from Grambling State. Erica 20 Sophomore from Grambling State. Brianna 14 8th grade and my son Eric 13 he was diagnosed with Asthma at 8 month, Autism/PDD at 2, Absence Seizures at 10 and now ADD/ADHD. I have been married for 20 years to my wonderful husband Eric as time goes by you will learn more about us.


Eric was born August 18, 1995 the youngest of 4 children he has three othere sister’s Lonette 21, Erica 19 and Brianna 13. The delivery with Eric was normal except the several cases of false labor he weighed 6 pounds 7 ounces and made his television debuet that same day along with his sister Brianna Hubby and I


. While growing up he had multiple ear infections and was diagnosed with Asthma at the age of 9 months we almost lost him at that point.


 We began to notice something was wrong when he spoke his first sentence at the age of one which was "Hey chuckle head" and from then on nothing more was said except for mommy and daddy, so in speaking to other people they just said that is normal for boys mature slower then girls and not to worry so we didnt.


 On a normal visit to his  see his physician Dr Myrah Kahn she began to notice things in Eric like his speech not talking in full sentences, or when he wanted something he would grab you by the finger and lead you to it and point or just grunt.


 So she suggested we or when you would ask him a question he would just repeat it so we suggested we take him to have his hearing checked so off to Olive View Medical we went, the hearing test came out fine.


Where they gave a series of other test and thats when we were given the news that Eric had Autism and it felt like my world came crumbling down.


 I mean all I felt was anger,  frustration, sadness for about two weeks I was on a fog, but then I had to get it together so I could get


Eric the help he needed  for we started to see how this was effecting him how he would become frustrated when you could not understand him so he would become angry and fight, his attention span was very short and he would cry for no reason.


 But as time when by and he got the proper  care from schools like Horaceman, Providencia and Miller and all the wonderful teachers and assistants that worked with him.


. Also the wonderful people from the Frank D Lanterman Center especially Darlene who came into our home and helped us with Eric with the toilet training it was a long process but we all got it done.


 Angela how has come in and helped with behavioral issues when needed.  In 2006 he was diagnosed with Absence seizures and now in 2008 they think he may have adhd we are having him tested in a few week for that.


It has been a never ending journey with Eric sometimes regression will set in or he will have meltdowns so bad that I just want to sit down and cry with him.


  School has had its  up and downs his last school he did so well he gave the graduation speech that you can find on my page here.


  This year has not been that kind a few of the kids have not been that acceptable of Eric, he has had his arm broken, picked on things thrown at him all because he is different, and friendly kid and according to the school dont fit into the "normal range of a child with Autism" what ever that means.  But he is not letting the fact that he is "Different change him" he is loved by so many people due to his charming personaliy thats why we call him our Prince lol. 


Just last week he was asked by the Spanish teacher if she could have him in her 7th period class here he normally takes Piano, the reason there is a child in there that will not speak but will communicate with Eric in Spanish, and its funny for when Eric speaks in English he tends to stutter, but when speaking in Spanish it flows out smooth and he has no accent.


So Eric on his on accord agreeded to change his class so he can help his friend to learn to speak in English.


So yes Autism has his bad themes but at times Autism can bring out qualities in our kids we never knew they had.


Have a blessed day

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A Letter To My Child's Teacher...
by Caliboo818 on 06.05.08 - public - 126 visits

A Letter To My Child's Teacher...


To those who may teach my child:

My child has been diagnosed as having Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder.

As a parent, I expect my child to behave in an acceptable manner at school and anywhere else. However, I have had to recognize that certain behaviors are characteristic of ADHD. I have had to realize that while some of these behaviors may be inconvenient or unexpected, they are not unacceptable or "bad". They are simply different.

Please keep these differences in mind as you teach my child. Correct when you must, and please accommodate -or tolerate- when you can. Please contact me if there are any questions or problems.

Thank you.

Because my child has ADHD, you may expect to see these:

Physical Behaviors


Fidgeting, squirming, or otherwise being in "constant motion".
Clumsiness
May fall down a lot
Bumping into other students or objects in the classroom
Classroom Behaviors


May not listen to instructions
Will begin work without waiting to hear or read instructions
Trouble staying on task
Poor penmanship
Will lose or misplace papers, pencils and other materials
Will have to be reminded to clean up any work areas that may be used
Will probably be at your desk more often than most students
Will often ask questions which may or may not relate to what you are discussing
Will give unexpected responses to questions
May well turn in class work, tests, etc. before other children, but with lower quality than possible
Will occasionally "Hyper focus" on a topic to the point of fixation.
Social Behaviors


Tends to be "bossy" with other children
Tends to object strongly to what is perceived as "unfair".
Interrupts other's conversations
Intrudes on other's games or activities
Trouble waiting in line
May ignore others or simply walk away during a conversation
Emotional Behaviors


Sudden and sometimes drastic mood swings
Has feelings hurt easily
Easily frustrated
Tends to overreact to correction or criticism
Appearances


May appear disheveled-- even five minutes after being bathed and dressed. (We TRY, honest!)
Often lost in thought
May "self-talk" with silent lip movements

Comments(1)

stevej
Posted on Thu, 5 Jun 2008

A great letter of advocacy for your child! We should all document and communicate as well....

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