Caliboo818 - A Little by Little Production
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City: Duarte
State: CA
Country: USA
Member since: Mar 09, 2008
Last logged in: Nov 07, 2008
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Greeting to you all. I know you are saying about time she tells us something about her self lmbo. Well I am a MSAHM of four wonderful kids.

Three girls Lonette 21 soon to graduate next month from Grambling State. Erica 20 Sophomore from Grambling State. Brianna 14 8th grade and my son Eric 13 he was diagnosed with Asthma at 8 month, Autism/PDD at 2, Absence Seizures at 10 and now ADD/ADHD. I have been married for 20 years to my wonderful husband Eric as time goes by you will learn more about us.


Eric was born August 18, 1995 the youngest of 4 children he has three othere sister’s Lonette 21, Erica 19 and Brianna 13. The delivery with Eric was normal except the several cases of false labor he weighed 6 pounds 7 ounces and made his television debuet that same day along with his sister Brianna Hubby and I


. While growing up he had multiple ear infections and was diagnosed with Asthma at the age of 9 months we almost lost him at that point.


 We began to notice something was wrong when he spoke his first sentence at the age of one which was "Hey chuckle head" and from then on nothing more was said except for mommy and daddy, so in speaking to other people they just said that is normal for boys mature slower then girls and not to worry so we didnt.


 On a normal visit to his  see his physician Dr Myrah Kahn she began to notice things in Eric like his speech not talking in full sentences, or when he wanted something he would grab you by the finger and lead you to it and point or just grunt.


 So she suggested we or when you would ask him a question he would just repeat it so we suggested we take him to have his hearing checked so off to Olive View Medical we went, the hearing test came out fine.


Where they gave a series of other test and thats when we were given the news that Eric had Autism and it felt like my world came crumbling down.


 I mean all I felt was anger,  frustration, sadness for about two weeks I was on a fog, but then I had to get it together so I could get


Eric the help he needed  for we started to see how this was effecting him how he would become frustrated when you could not understand him so he would become angry and fight, his attention span was very short and he would cry for no reason.


 But as time when by and he got the proper  care from schools like Horaceman, Providencia and Miller and all the wonderful teachers and assistants that worked with him.


. Also the wonderful people from the Frank D Lanterman Center especially Darlene who came into our home and helped us with Eric with the toilet training it was a long process but we all got it done.


 Angela how has come in and helped with behavioral issues when needed.  In 2006 he was diagnosed with Absence seizures and now in 2008 they think he may have adhd we are having him tested in a few week for that.


It has been a never ending journey with Eric sometimes regression will set in or he will have meltdowns so bad that I just want to sit down and cry with him.


  School has had its  up and downs his last school he did so well he gave the graduation speech that you can find on my page here.


  This year has not been that kind a few of the kids have not been that acceptable of Eric, he has had his arm broken, picked on things thrown at him all because he is different, and friendly kid and according to the school dont fit into the "normal range of a child with Autism" what ever that means.  But he is not letting the fact that he is "Different change him" he is loved by so many people due to his charming personaliy thats why we call him our Prince lol. 


Just last week he was asked by the Spanish teacher if she could have him in her 7th period class here he normally takes Piano, the reason there is a child in there that will not speak but will communicate with Eric in Spanish, and its funny for when Eric speaks in English he tends to stutter, but when speaking in Spanish it flows out smooth and he has no accent.


So Eric on his on accord agreeded to change his class so he can help his friend to learn to speak in English.


So yes Autism has his bad themes but at times Autism can bring out qualities in our kids we never knew they had.


Have a blessed day

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Are you there Bridget it's me Autism
by Caliboo818 on 10.14.08 - public - 69 visits

This is the voice I heard today as I took Eric for his blood work. Blood work that comes from having Absence Seizures which comes from him having Autism. The little voice that rears his head when I look into the eyes of my young prince as he tried to hold back the tears and I tried to explain to him why once again they have to stick a needle in his arm which he hates to much to draw his blood to put into the tube. Hey Bridget are you there its me Autism knocking and tugging at your heart strings as I hold back the tears and I listen to him say mommy why are they doing this to your baby your only son. Even the nurse Carmen who loves him so much and the Dr's brother how calls him his best friend have to look away to keep from crying as I say to him its a part of the Autism honey, but dont worry I am here to hold you before during and after I will never leave your side and seemed to cancel the fears and he told Carmen to go ahead and take the blood he is a big boy now. Hey Autism I know you are here, you have been since 1998 a constant reminder that you will always try to find ways to keep him and other boys and girls whose lives you have enterned from acheiving their God given goals in life. But Hey Autism its me Bridget and guess what you cant have our kids, we will fight you till the bitter end, you can not take over their minds, hearts and souls. We stand over a Million Strong, we are fighters, we are mothers, fathers, brothers, aunts, uncles, siblings, grandparents. Hey Autism its me Bridget and guess what our kids may have you
BUT YOU DONT HAVE THEM.

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Caliboo818
Posted on Sat, 18 Oct 2008

Thank you ladies for the kind words yes in deed I love my son with ever fiber of my being and I know you all love your kids just the same. It's a never ending battle but with Prayer and belief in God I know we can do it

carmel66
Posted on Tue, 14 Oct 2008

Wonderful essay. Thank you- we have to do the blood work routine, too. We have our group of special people that work with us. They fight for us. They are believers. I have a dream...it might be crazy...it might never happen - but when my son loses his diagnosis every single one of them will get a thank you card, but they are all so important to what we are doing.

Motherof4
Posted on Tue, 14 Oct 2008

Your passion for your son brought tears to my eyes. You write so well. Thank you.

frogfoot1969
Posted on Tue, 14 Oct 2008

Beautifully put. We started using numbing cream 30-45 mins. before blood draws and it is Soooo much better. He still hates it but you can tell he doesn't feel the needle go in. What a brave boy you have.

shannonj
Posted on Tue, 14 Oct 2008

Hi- What a wonderful way to express the passion and the protectiveness that we parents feel for our children....You are a good mom and your son is so very brave. I have to take my son for regular blood work as well, as he is well-known in the hospital for being incredibly courageous. I believe that our kids are touching the hearts of those in the medical profession with their courage and their desire to get better.

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