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Hello, My name is Lisa. I'm a part time Substitute Teacher Grades K - 12, special Ed, as well as a Full time mom, to three wonderful kids. Christian, Carolyn - both in 7th grade and going through the  middle school Drama, and my youngest who is now 11 years old and has severe autism. Richie was diagnosed when he was 2 years old...and has been my inspiration. Just when I think I got it all figured out...my kids are there to let me know, I have been driving in the wrong lane, going the wrong direction.


We have been through some really good times and some really bad times. We have survived, moving to Japan, moving to Utah, Iraq...and Now we are Surviving Autism and Puberty..... I ran accross a quote this year...that pretty much sums up my whole attitude about everything these days. Any Day Above Ground is a Good Day....Explore All the possibilities, and Dont Sweat the Small Stuff. I'm too blessed to be stressed and way to annointed to be disappointed. And When life is really Hard....HANDLE WITH PRAYER.


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Autistic Kids Aren't Sick..."Just Brats"
by LisaAKAmom on 07.19.08 - public - 278 visits

A Savage Betrayal Of Humanity: Radio Host Michael Savage Says Autistic Kids Aren't Sick..."Just Brats"
by Steve and Ryan Young

I've written for years about the problems I've had with talk radio, and did so, for the most part with tongue tucked firmly in cheek. I've even had my own show in L.A. so In some way, I've been a part of the problem I write about. I do get ticked off, but rarely does anything said on talk radio ever cause me to lose my sense of humor. Until this past Wednesday.

On his syndicated talk radio show, The Savage Nation, Michael Savage (real name: Michael Weiner), the third most listened to talk show host behind Rush Limbaugh and Sean Hannity, and a bomb thrower like no other, called the disorder known as Autism, "a fraud" and "a racket."

He went further.

"I'll tell you what autism is. In 99 percent of the cases, it's a brat who hasn't been told to cut the act out. That's what autism is. What do you mean they scream and they're silent? They don't have a father around to tell them, 'Don't act like a moron. You'll get nowhere in life. Stop acting like a putz. Straighten up. Act like a man. Don't sit there crying and screaming, idiot."There's so much I wanted to say, not only to pound some actual knowledge into whatever Savage uses for a brain, but also to defend those families who have been besieged by the heartbreak and hardship of living with someone, especially their children, with Autism.

I wondered how Savage might feel it were his child who was constantly being met with disapproving stares from strangers who recommend that "if your child can't behave maybe you shouldn't take him out in public." And how he might feel if the knew that it is going to happen every single day.

But as I began to write a note to Savage, I realized that it would be more appropriate to have someone who knows full well the devastation felt of not only hearing the diagnosis of your child as autistic, but having to live through the day to day sadness, frustration and pain you feel when it hits you that your child may never have what most would consider a typical life. For that I turned to my son Ryan...

Mr. Savage,
My eight year old daughter Rebecca has a diagnosis of Autism.
Autism is a brain development disorder that impairs social interaction and communication, and causes restricted and repetitive behavior. That diagnosis in itself may help define a set of Rebecca's symptoms, but it far from defines who she is any more than insensitive or mean-spirited totally describes you.

Rebecca can be sweet, funny, happy, sad, angry, silly, frustrating, irritating, gentle, kind or any number of other adjectives you'd use to describe a typical eight year old, though brat is not one that her doctors have used to describe her. That usually only comes from those ignorant of her condition.

When Rebecca is having a meltdown or dealing with any other upsetting moment in a public place, we are almost always met with judgmental glares from onlookers who are thinking, boy, if that was my child... or who might even say, "If you can't control that child, keep her home!" G-d forbid these people ask if there anything they can do to help you. It's something every parent of an autistic child has had to deal with most every day.

If you don't understand Autism, its very easy to say or think such things. I probably did too before my wife and I had Rebecca, but I never went on a radio show, where millions of people believe I am some sort of authority, to label innocent children as a moron or idiot. That you supposedly hold master's degrees in medical botany and medical anthropology makes your actions even more shameful.

Imagine, Mr Savage, if you lacked the ability to express your feelings, thoughts or needs. Imagine if this were your child. Would you want your child smeared for something they had no control over? Many children with autism lack the capacity to verbalize their feelings instead act them out. This is not how they act like a putz. This is how they communicate.

Being her father, I see Rebecca's many challenges, stressors and unexpected events that challenge her ability to get through each and every day. As parents, her stressful and frustrating moments become OUR stressful and frustrating moments. What loving parent doesn't cheer when their child succeeds or aches when their child is hurt, frustrated or upset?

Because the world challenges Rebecca so incessantly it would be easy to want to keep her home, insulated from the world, protecting her against the whirlwind of circumstances that at once can delight her one moment or upset and anger her the next. But ours is a life built on "that which does not kill you, can only make you stronger." With each challenge Rebecca meets head on, she can learn and grow, hopefully adapting to the world, one step at a time. With each fall that she rises from she learns to walk a little stronger; gains confidence, and actually learns to become the best Rebecca she can be.

What no parent of a special needs child wants is to be pre-judged or isolated and kept in the shadows so that people like you don't have to look at a child with a disability. We want and need support of those around us and hope upon hope that our child be treated with compassion and understanding.

This week, you Mr. Savage, have made that a little harder.

Sincerely,
Rebecca's Proud Dad, Ryan

For more information on Autism, go to: Autism Speaks at www.autismspeaks.org

Ryan Young is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New York. His dad is author of "Great Failures of the Extremely Successful...Mistakes, Adversity, Failure and Other Steppingstones to Success."

>>>>>There is also a Video if you go to this Link!
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/steve-young/a-savage-betrayal-of-huma_b_113510.html

Summary!
On the July 16 edition of his nationally syndicated radio show, Michael Savage claimed that autism is "[a] fraud, a racket." Savage went on to say, "I'll tell you what autism is. In 99 percent of the cases, it's a brat who hasn't been told to cut the act out. That's what autism is. What do you mean they scream and they're silent? They don't have a father around to tell them, 'Don't act like a moron. You'll get nowhere in life. Stop acting like a putz. Straighten up. Act like a man. Don't sit there crying and screaming, idiot.' " Savage concluded, "[I]f I behaved like a fool, my father called me a fool. And he said to me, 'Don't behave like a fool.' The worst thing he said -- 'Don't behave like a fool. Don't be anybody's dummy. Don't sound like an idiot. Don't act like a girl. Don't cry.' That's what I was raised with. That's what you should raise your children with. Stop with the sensitivity training. You're turning your son into a girl, and you're turning your nation into a nation of losers and beaten men. That's why we have the politicians we have."

Savage also stated: "[W]hy was there an asthma epidemic amongst minority children? Because I'll tell you why: The children got extra welfare if they were disabled, and they got extra help in school. It was a money racket. Everyone went in and was told [fake cough], 'When the nurse looks at you, you go [fake cough], "I don't know, the dust got me." ' See, everyone had asthma from the minority community."

Talk Radio Network, which syndicates The Savage Nation, claims that Savage is heard on more than 350 radio stations. The Savage Nation reaches at least 8.25 million listeners each week, according to Talkers Magazine, making it one of the most listened-to talk radio shows in the nation, behind only The Rush Limbaugh Show and The Sean Hannity Show.

From the July 16 edition of Talk Radio Network's The Savage Nation:

SAVAGE: Now, you want me to tell you my opinion on autism, since I'm not talking about autism? A fraud, a racket. For a long while, we were hearing that every minority child had asthma. Why did they sudden -- why was there an asthma epidemic amongst minority children? Because I'll tell you why: The children got extra welfare if they were disabled, and they got extra help in school. It was a money racket. Everyone went in and was told [fake cough], "When the nurse looks at you, you go [fake cough], 'I don't know, the dust got me.' " See, everyone had asthma from the minority community. That was number one.

Now, the illness du jour is autism. You know what autism is? I'll tell you what autism is. In 99 percent of the cases, it's a brat who hasn't been told to cut the act out. That's what autism is.

What do you mean they scream and they're silent? They don't have a father around to tell them, "Don't act like a moron. You'll get nowhere in life. Stop acting like a putz. Straighten up. Act like a man. Don't sit there crying and screaming, idiot."

Autism -- everybody has an illness. If I behaved like a fool, my father called me a fool. And he said to me, "Don't behave like a fool." The worst thing he said -- "Don't behave like a fool. Don't be anybody's dummy. Don't sound like an idiot. Don't act like a girl. Don't cry." That's what I was raised with. That's what you should raise your children with. Stop with the sensitivity training. You're turning your son into a girl, and you're turning your nation into a nation of losers and beaten men. That's why we have the politicians we have.

—Z.A.
Zachary Aronow is an intern at Media Matters for America.

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As a Parent, we get pretty use to ignorance and comments made...and we have developed pretty thick Skin...but after listening to this man, and reading his comments....You can better believe, I will be taking Action....and wrting not only Mr. Savage, but Hopefully his boss...and I promise to be just as respectful as he was to Us and Our Children!!!! BTW, I think Mr. Savage, needs to Stop acting like a Moron, and make is father proud, by not Behaving like a Fool...Do you think a Good Spanking Would Cure His Ignorance??? HMMM, I wonder?

Comments(20)

zacharysmom
Posted on Fri, 25 Jul 2008

I think he should be fired, but he won't as long as the ratings keep climbing----sad but true

KevinLivsDad
Posted on Wed, 23 Jul 2008

This guy I would classify as an "ahole" & that is being polite. I will let you guys represent me as I would not be able to be "professional". Unless that would include a sock full of pennies & a dark alley.

LisaAKAmom
Posted on Mon, 21 Jul 2008

First of all...YOU GUYS ROCK!!!!! I love the behavior plan comment...had me rolling! I loved Shannon's Letter....Just Awesome, and I went ahead and I posted the letter I wrote, on my blog to share with all of you...as we are all in this together...I dont think its as good as shannon's, but there is Power in Numbers! I'm also going to email the presidential candidates...i would love to hear what they have to say about mr. savages comments too. God Bless you all...

dailyblessings
Posted on Mon, 21 Jul 2008

WHO's behaving badly-sounds like a Behavior plan is in order for Mr Savage??!!

frogfoot1969
Posted on Sun, 20 Jul 2008

Here is a petition link to get this guy fired. http://www.thepetitionsite.com/next/486739008

alesovoy
Posted on Sun, 20 Jul 2008

We get SSI, but certainly not welfare... And thank god for it, i don't know how we'd manage without it. This guy is a worthless waste of space.

Christopherrobinsmom
Posted on Sat, 19 Jul 2008

This moron doesnt need to judge someone or their child until he knows what its like to be in their shoes. I seriously hope he learns how to not be so insensitive. His parents should have given him a lesson on that.

harleysmom2003
Posted on Sat, 19 Jul 2008

what a jerk! I feel sorry for any child he may have now or in the future!

frogfoot1969
Posted on Sat, 19 Jul 2008

What an idiot!! You can't fake Asthma, lol. He is really laughable. I too think he suffered emotional abuse. We can all see he is Autism ignorant. The sad thing is he is spreading his stupidity.

Motherof4
Posted on Sat, 19 Jul 2008

Don't get me wrong. I'm sending him a pretty specific message. But, yes, it sounds like he was an abused child.

Mrs.H.
Posted on Fri, 18 Jul 2008

You lost me when you mentioned him in the same sentence as Rush Limbaugh. Simple minds, really....."I learned 2 things early on, my sister said. The first is don't blame people for being the way they are. What's the second? I said. She smiled. If they're really stupid she said, go ahead & blame them. It's a really simple philosophy, she added." - storypeople

minnakay
Posted on Fri, 18 Jul 2008

omg

LisaAKAmom
Posted on Fri, 18 Jul 2008

Ok you guys got me thinking again....I know scary thought uh! But, I just got to thinking, that if I do respond...I need to choose my words carefully, and even though he may not have been respectful...I dont have to behave the same way. Thanks for reminding me of a quote I stumbled accross last year...and well just maybe it fits here too. Maybe the person that needs Love the Most....are those who seem to deserve it the Least. I dont know who said it...but it does hit home. God Bless, Lisa

LisaAKAmom
Posted on Fri, 18 Jul 2008

LOL...see that's why I vented here! To give me time to think about my actions... I am still disgusted....and I dont know if it will do any good or not....but I still feel complelled to write a complaint to his superiors. It may not make a difference to this gentleman...but maybe it will with someone else. Shannon...I do have to agree with you....Lightenining does strike...and you never really know about something until it really hits HOME. Hopefully, this man will never have to know exactly what it is we cope with daily.

Motherof4
Posted on Fri, 18 Jul 2008

Incredible. Actually, it sounds like Weiner/Savage's father engaged in a fair amount of emotional abuse. What's horrible, is he's perpetuating it and endorsing it.

shannonj
Posted on Fri, 18 Jul 2008

I think this guy is the type to jump on any topic that will has some level of emotion attached to it....It probably doesn't matter what he thinks, he says what he says because it is controversial and it draws attention to his radio show. Unfortunately, there probably is a portion of the population that believes him. I've heard other talk-show hosts say similar things about ADHD as well....And, if it hadn't hit my home, I might be tempted to think it was bad parenting too....It is easy to judge when you don't live it.

ppdnos1mom
Posted on Fri, 18 Jul 2008

I don't think I should have gone to the link. I was mad enough reading what he said but once I actually heard his voice saying it, well, it really got my blood boiling. I agree with with lifecoachlaura, I don't know if this man is worth trying to educate. I just hope, REALLY hope that his listeners are better educated!!

LifeCoachLaura
Posted on Fri, 18 Jul 2008

I don't feel like this putz is worth my time and effort to try to educate, but I hope that he hears from lots of other parents and concerned citizens who do.

carmel66
Posted on Fri, 18 Jul 2008

Savage's dad told him to "not act like a fool" - - too bad he didn't listen...

LisaAKAmom
Posted on Fri, 18 Jul 2008

BTW....How many of us Parents...actually get SSI and Welfare for our children (not insulting or putting anyone down that does get it...because the deserve It) But alot of us...Dont recieve any Financial Assistance what so ever!

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